Choosing the Right Career

Why "Log Kya Kahenge" Shouldn't Decide Your Future

3/26/20252 मिनट पढ़ें

man standing near trees during daytime
man standing near trees during daytime

Let’s be honest—making career or education decisions in India often feels like a family group project. You say, “I like painting,” and suddenly Chachu says, “Toh hobby rakh na beta, career thodi banate hain isme.”
Or worse, you find yourself googling “Top 10 careers in 2025” and blindly picking one because the internet told you so. Been there?

The Reality: Society Decides, Not You

In our country (and honestly, many parts of the world), most career decisions are made under the influence of:

  • Family expectations

  • Peer pressure

  • Society's “safe choices”

  • Trending news articles

  • Or that one Sharma ji ka beta who's already earning 25 LPA

But here’s the catch—what works for Sharma ji ka beta might not work for you. Why? Because you are wired differently.

The Stats Don’t Lie

Research says that over 60% of professionals feel stuck in careers they don’t enjoy. In India alone, workplace stress and burnout are rising at an alarming rate. One major reason? People are in the wrong jobs—jobs that don’t match their natural personality, interests, or talents.

Meet Mr. Mismatch

Imagine this:

  • A person who loves talking, cracks jokes, and has a natural flair for people ends up sitting in front of a screen all day fixing code.

  • Or someone who lives for quiet focus and loves tech puzzles is forced into sales where every day feels like a never-ending social event.

Both are in the wrong shoes—and guess what? Eventually, the shoes start to hurt.

Why Choosing Based on Interests and Traits Matters

When you choose your career or education path based on who you truly are—your personality, interests, and strengths—you don’t just survive your job... you thrive in it.

Sure, every path has its bumps and struggles. But when you’re walking your own path, you’re more likely to:

  • Enjoy the learning process

  • Feel motivated even on tough days

  • Grow in ways that feel meaningful

  • And yes, earn money without losing your sanity

Because success isn’t just about the paycheck. It’s about fulfillment. And that comes when your job feels like an extension of your passion.

What You Can Do (Instead of Googling “High-paying jobs in 2025”)

  • Start with self-awareness. Know your personality type, what excites you, and what drains you.

  • Explore your interests deeply—not just what looks cool on Instagram.

  • Take career assessments based on psychology, not popular opinion.

  • Talk to people in fields you like instead of just relatives in “safe jobs.”

  • Give yourself permission to choose what feels right, even if it’s different.

Final Thought

You’re not a robot meant to follow society’s programming.
You’re a unique combo of talents, interests, and vibes—and your career should reflect that.

So next time someone says, “Beta, do engineering first, then decide,”
You can say:
"Thanks, Uncle. But I’m engineering a future that actually fits me."